Wednesday, April 25, 2012

Going through your life pleasing others, by sacrificing your feelings, hiding your true thoughts and not standing up for yourself when you are being treated unfairly all so that you don’t upset someone or make waves or that you will not be ... liked or loved anymore are behaviors that you may have had to learn to survive. But these behaviors are deep seated fears that you and your thoughts are not ...as good as others, this fear brings loneliness, sadness and despair that you may keep locked away, hidden to all. 
It is time to smash these fears and break these behaviors ! 
Look inside and see that you are worthy and capable to make this life your own. 
Let your beautiful loving spirit love and guide you; it is time to step out of others shadows and walk out of this darkness and into your own life into your own light.
This isn’t a perfect world… people get hurt.
you smile when you feel like crying.
you act like your okay when your falling apart.
but you gotta let go and move on…
Because there’s nothing else you can do.

I know it hurts. I know that. 
But if you give up now, you may be missing something greater than you could ever have imagined. And no one wants to miss something that will change their life forever. 
Just keep holding on, and I promise it’ll get better. it always does, have faith.

It will be worth it to be with someone who knows your worth


Finding someone who realizes how much you are worth will probably lead to a better life than a life dedicated to someone who pays no mind to how much you are worth. One small but big reason that we all seek companionship from someone we can stem an intimate relationship with is because we want to feel loved, we all want to feel important, and we all want to be attractive to at least one person. So make your significant other feels as though they are truly important.

Show them that you care in different ways everyday that you possibly can. Never be scared to tell them your true feelings aloud, especially if you love them, and be sure to also tell them why you care about them as well. Everyone needs their ego stroked every once in a while, make sure if you have someone special and if someone has you to communicate your love for them, and not to let them take for granted that you need these things communicated to yourself as well.
I am happy to be me.
I may not be perfect but I am honest, loving, and happy.
I don't try to be what I am not and I don't try to impress anyone.
I am Me.

Sometimes, when you give up on someone, it’s not because you don’t care anymore, but because you realize they don’t...

Tuesday, April 24, 2012

In life there is no going back.
The road lies straight ahead.
You can’t return along the track to see out what has past.
You can’t undo your past mistakes;
even wishing to do so is in vain.

But in between all this; Don’t forget that you can always try again.
It's Madness...

To hate all roses, because you got scratched by one thorn.
To give up all your dreams, because one did not come true.
To lose faith in prayers, because one was not answered.

To give up on your efforts, because one of them failed.
To condemn all your friends, because one of them betrayed.
Not to believe in love, because someone was unfaithful.

Remember that, another chance may come up.
A new friend, A new love, A new life.

Never give up on anything !
It doesn’t matter what religion you are, what philosophy you follow. 
What matters is the intention you have in achieving a more harmonious world.
 If all the people that desire a change start creating a force among us, we can create a thought frequency of harmony, of peace, of freedom. It will all depend on unity.
We met → We talked → We liked → We called → We texted → We dated → We committed → I loved → You cheated → We're done → You're deleted.
Dear Papa ♥

No Matter Where I Go In Life,
Who I Get Married To,
How Much Time I Spend With Friendz,
How Much I Love My Love,
You Will Always Be My "Number One MAN" !!!




 

Sincerely,

Your Little Girl
Sometimes we wait for something that we're sure will never happen. 
But we just wait, wishing there would be a way to make it happen :')

Monday, April 23, 2012

I think everyone has a side where they are depressed and unhappy. 
Some people ignore it. 
Some people try to change it. 
Some people completely show it. 
And some people, they deal with it.
We have so many needs in our life, but at the end of the day, all we need is to be needed.
Getting my trust is easy. 
Getting it back when you've lost it.. Is impossible. 
So if you want to keep it, don't do something to lose it.
Sometimes you have to be strong for yourself. 
You have to know that you are a good person and a good friend. 
What is meant to be will end up good and what is not won’t. 
Relationships are worth fighting for, but sometimes you can’t be the only one fighting. At time, people need to fight for you. If they don’t, you must move on and realize what you gave them was more than they were willing to give you. 
Hopefully, people realize great things when they come around and don’t lose something real. Always fight, until you can’t anymore, and then be fought for.
Sometimes it is necessary to limit or eliminate your contact with certain individuals who bring you more misery than peace and do not reflect or allow you to be the person that you truly are or aspire to become. Instead, surround yourself with positive thinkers who are not always creating drama. 
Choose people who make your day brighter simply by being around them. 
Find those who you admire; you are proud to know; and who support, motivate and encourage you to grow.

Sunday, April 22, 2012

Pindapatta menyambut Waisak at Glodok











Mundur untuk Meloncat Lebih Tinggi


Suatu hari seorang murid dan guru berjalan menuruni gunung menuju ke kota, di dalam perjalanan mereka bertemu anak sungai yang aliran airnya tidak terlalu deras, saat itu sang guru melangkahi sungai tersebut dengan sangat mudah, walaupun sungai tersebut cukup lebar.

Sang murid yang melihat gurunya dengan sangat kagum, dan sang guru memintanya untuk mengikuti la...ngkahnya. Sang murid merasa ia tidak mampu melangkahi sungai tersebut hanya dengan satu langkah lebar, maka murid tersebut berjalan mundur dua langkah dan berlari kecil melompati sungai tersebut, hap, sungai itu berhasil dilalui.

Semakin jauh perjalanan mereka, rintangan yang dihadapi pun semakin berat, sang murid mengikuti gurunya di belakang dengan sangat hati-hati.

Tibalah mereka di sebuah jurang yang cukup terjal, namun tidak terlalu lebar. Di ujung jurang tersebut sang guru melangahkan kaki dengan yakin dan langkah pasti yang lebar, sang guru berhasil melangkahkan kakinya di sebrang jurang. Sang murid yang melihatnya sangat terkejut, sang guru pun berkata.

“Ayo melangkahlah menuju sisi jurang ini, lebar jurang ini sama seperti sungai yang kita lalui sebelumnya !”

Sang murid, yang melihat gurunya di sebrang jurang menunjukkan sebuah raut keraguan di wajahnya. Dengan seksama ia perhatikan lebar jurang tersebut, kedalamannya dan melihat ke belakang.

Dengan penuh kepastian ia mengambil lima langkah mundur dan bersiap menyebrangi jurang tersebut dengan berlari dan meloncat sepenuh tenaga, dan sekali lagi perhitungannya tepat. Sang murid berhasil menyebrangi jurang tersebut berkat kecerdikannya.

Sesampainya di sebrang jurang sang guru mengelus lembut kepala muridnya sambil berkata

“Wahai muridku, tahukah engaku apa yang membedakan loncatanmu saat di sungai dan di tepi jurang ? Walaupun dengan lebar yang sama, namun kau dapat melihat rintangan yang berbeda dari kedua hal tersebut, karena itu kau mengambil langkah mundur yang lebih banyak saat loncat di tepi jurang untuk memastikan keselamatanmu.

Begitu juga dengan kehidupan, saat tantangan hidup di depanmu lebih besar, kau harus melangkah mundur sedikit lebih banyak agar kita mampu mengatasi segala kemungkinan yang ada dan meloncat lebih tinggi.

Saat kau mengalami suatu kemunduran dalam hidupmu, entah itu kegagalan, jatuh, dikhianati, mungkin itulah langkah mundurmu agar dapat melompat lebih tinggi dan meraih setiap kesuksesanmu.”


Sumber: Dunia Training

Test 3 orang menantu


Seorang ibu mertua Punya 3 menantu dari ke-3 putrinya yang cantik-cantik, sang ibu mertua ingin tahu apakah ketiga menantunya itu sayang kepada mertuanya atau cuma putrinya doang. Dia lalu memutuskan menguji mereka secara bergantian.

Suatu hari dia mengajak menantu pertama naik perahu motor ke tengah laut. Di sana dia sengaja menjatuhkan dirinya dari perahu dan terlempar ke ...dalam air laut. Sang menantu tanpa pikir panjang langsung terjun menyelamatkan ibu mertuanya.

Besoknya ketika keluar rumah, sang menantu pertama melihat mobil Nissan Livina terparkir di depan rumah, dan secarik kertas tertempel bertulisan “Dari ibu mertuamu”.

Giliran menantu ke-2 yang diajak ke tengah laut. Sekali lagi sang mertua pura-pura terjatuh dan terlempar keluar perahu. Menantu kedua ini melupakan pakaian dan dompetnya, langsung terjun demi menyelamatkan mertua tercinta.

Besoknya di depan rumah menantu ke-2 terparkir Toyota Alphard, disertai kertas bertuliskan “Dari ibu mertuamu”

Ketika giliran menantu ke-3 diajak ke tengah laut, sang mertua kembali melakukan gerakan terjun bebas.

Tapi apes, kali ini sang menantu malah berkecak pinggang memandangi ibu mertuanya yang megap-megap di dalam air. Sempat-sempatnya dia berkata, “Rasain loe!”, sambil berputar membawa perahunya ke darat.

Besok harinya ketika menantu ini keluar rumah, di depan rumahnya terparkir Mercedes Benz E-Class beserta kertas bertulisakan, “Dari ayah mertuamu”
Everytime I Start Liking S0me0ne,
S0me0ne Else Always Steals Them Away..