Wednesday, April 25, 2012

Going through your life pleasing others, by sacrificing your feelings, hiding your true thoughts and not standing up for yourself when you are being treated unfairly all so that you don’t upset someone or make waves or that you will not be ... liked or loved anymore are behaviors that you may have had to learn to survive. But these behaviors are deep seated fears that you and your thoughts are not ...as good as others, this fear brings loneliness, sadness and despair that you may keep locked away, hidden to all. 
It is time to smash these fears and break these behaviors ! 
Look inside and see that you are worthy and capable to make this life your own. 
Let your beautiful loving spirit love and guide you; it is time to step out of others shadows and walk out of this darkness and into your own life into your own light.
This isn’t a perfect world… people get hurt.
you smile when you feel like crying.
you act like your okay when your falling apart.
but you gotta let go and move on…
Because there’s nothing else you can do.

I know it hurts. I know that. 
But if you give up now, you may be missing something greater than you could ever have imagined. And no one wants to miss something that will change their life forever. 
Just keep holding on, and I promise it’ll get better. it always does, have faith.

It will be worth it to be with someone who knows your worth


Finding someone who realizes how much you are worth will probably lead to a better life than a life dedicated to someone who pays no mind to how much you are worth. One small but big reason that we all seek companionship from someone we can stem an intimate relationship with is because we want to feel loved, we all want to feel important, and we all want to be attractive to at least one person. So make your significant other feels as though they are truly important.

Show them that you care in different ways everyday that you possibly can. Never be scared to tell them your true feelings aloud, especially if you love them, and be sure to also tell them why you care about them as well. Everyone needs their ego stroked every once in a while, make sure if you have someone special and if someone has you to communicate your love for them, and not to let them take for granted that you need these things communicated to yourself as well.
I am happy to be me.
I may not be perfect but I am honest, loving, and happy.
I don't try to be what I am not and I don't try to impress anyone.
I am Me.

Sometimes, when you give up on someone, it’s not because you don’t care anymore, but because you realize they don’t...