If you have to keep wondering where you stand with someone, perhaps it's time to stop standing and start walking.

I no longer believed in the idea of soul mates, or love at first sight. But I was beginning to believe that a very few times in your life, if you were lucky, you might meet someone who was exactly right for you. Not because he was perfect, or because you were, but because your combined flaws were arranged in a way that allowed two separate beings to hinge together.
~ Lisa Kleypas, Blue-Eyed Devil ~

Try to forgive by trying to understand how it would feel to be in the other’s shoes. If someone hurts you – ask them - “What hurts you so much that you would do this?” Listen to the answer and try to understand what is valid for them. They may have been fighting for your attention, but no one thinks of themselves as attackers, only defenders! So don’t judge their ways, only set them free by giving them a chance to speak. You may both learn a lot from your kindness and courage in asking for the truth. But even if nothing changes, release it, remember that you both have a right to be who you choose to be. When we make judgements we're inevitably acting on limited knowledge, so ask if you seek to understand, or simply let them be!

~ Jay Woodman ~

 

I can tell you a lot about her.
She’s someone with a huge heart.
She will bend over backwards and fold herself in half helping out someone if she can do anything.
Her loyalty to the ones that mean something to her is unheard of nowadays.
She smiles like she’s never been hurt, and if you didn’t know her, you wouldn’t ever imagine her to ever be hurt. But it happens, a lot more than anyone realizes....
She’s really fragile, and it takes very little for her to be hurt, as she takes everything to heart.
I’m not surprised though if you don’t know a lot though,
because she’s really cautious and her letting someone close to her is a rare thing to happen.
There are demons inside her that she’s constantly in a fight with.
And she’s a lot worse to herself than anything that could be said to her.
She wouldn’t expect anyone to notice her or to listen to the things she has to say that aren’t necessary to be said.
But I’m telling you, she’s so worth it all, she’s nothing you’d ever expect, and you’ll feel alive in a way that you’ve never have with her in your life.

 

 

 

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