Saturday, October 5, 2013


Belajar SABAR meski tertatih,
Belajar IKHLAS meski kadang masih suka mengeluh,
Belajar TABAH meski hati susah,
Belajar TEGAR meski sering menangis karena terjatuh dan
luka,
Belajar MENAHAN AMARAH meski hati berdarah,

Belajar dan belajar,
Belajar tak ubahnya menanam sebutir biji,
Disemai dengan kesabaran,...

Dirawat penuh keikhlasan sekalipun kadang lelah menanti,
kapan biji itu akan berkecambah dan bertUnas,

Tak mudah memang,
Namun tak ada alasan untuk tidak BELAJAR MENJADI PRIBADI YANG
LEBIH BAIK DARI KEMARIN
 
 

kadang kala berbicara terlalu jujur juga bisa menimbulkan hal yang tidak menyenangkan... Kenapa bisa begini????

buat teman teman Fanpages Kebajikan ini ada nasehat dari master Cheng Yen....( stts ini saya copas dari saudari Rinda Lim )

Bagaimana Cara Berbicara Yang Tidak Melukai Perasaan ?

Master Cheng Yen menjawab :

Jika berbicara terlalu jujur, bagi orang yang tidak satu tekad atau satu jala...
n dengan kita, akan mendengarnya sebagai perkataan penuh duri.
Sebaliknya, walau pun merupakan mawar berduri, namun bagi yang satu tekad dan satu jalan dengan kita, yang terlihat olehnya adalah keindahan bunga mawar.

Ketika berbicara harus penuh kehangatan, jangan karena merasa benar lalu tidak mau mengalah, atau pun berkata “Jika kamu tidak mau kerjakan, masih banyak yang antri untuk mengerjakannya!” Perkataan demikian tentu akan melukai perasaan orang.

Jika mau berbicara sangat jujur (to the point), hanya ditujukan pada teman akrab saja, sebab dia akan memahami kalau di atas duri adalah bunga mawar, juga akan mengerti kalau perkataan ini demi kebaikannya. Bagi orang yang tidak masuk akal, perlakukan saja dengan cinta kasih sejernih air, hanya perlu tambahkan sedikit gula saja.
 
 
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The heart of a teacher


A young man, a student was taking a walk with a professor who was known for his kindness. As they went along, they saw lying in the path a pair of old shoes, which they supposed belonged to a poor man who was employed in a field close by, and who had nearly finished his day’s work.

The student turned to the professor, saying: “Let us play the man a trick: we will hide his shoes, and conceal ourselves behind bushes, and wait to see his confusion when he cannot find them.”

“My young friend,” answered the professor, “we should never amuse ourselves at the expense of the poor. But you are rich and can give yourself much greater pleasure this way . Put a coin into each shoe, and We watch to see how the discovery affects him.”

The student did so and they both placed themselves behind the bushes close by. The poor man soon finished his work, and came across the field to the path where he had left his coat and shoes. While putting on his coat he slipped his foot into one of his shoes; but feeling something hard, he stooped down to feel what it was, and found the coin. He was absolutely astonished . He gazed upon the coin, turned it round, and looked at it again and again. He then looked around him on all sides but no person was to be seen. He now put the money into his pocket, and proceeded to put on the other shoe; but his surprise was doubled on finding the other coin. His feelings overcame him; he fell upon his knees, looked up to heaven and uttered aloud a fervent thanksgiving thanking some unknown hand which would save his sick wife and his children who were without bread.

The student stood there deeply affected, and his eyes filled with tears.

“Now,” said the professor, “are you not much better pleased than if you had played your wicked trick?”

The youth replied, “You have taught me a lesson which I will never forget. I feel now the truth of those words, which I never understood before:

‘It is more blessed to give than to receive.”

Jangan mengantungkan kebahagiaan kita pd seseorang,walaupun pd pasangan kita.
Jgn mengantungkan kebahagiaan batin kita pd org yg kita percayai, krn trkdg semua harapan tdk sesuai harapn dan bs membuat kita terpuruk kedlm lembah duka terdalam.
kebahagiaan yg sesungguhnya adalah mengolah batin kita sebaik mungkin utk menerima semua yg trjdi pd kita, baik atau buruk. krn dari semua itu kita bs mengusahakn kekuatan didlm pikiran dan batin kita agar bs menghadapi semua hal dgn lbh baik.mungkin sj belum bijak, tp stdknya kita berusaha tdk menyakiti org lain dan diri kita. dan semoga dari semua perjlnan kehidupan ini, kita semua bs mendptkn kebijaksanaan.


Mendoakan seorang mantan pacar tuh harus baik,

meskipun dia telah menyakiti kamu ,

doakan saja semoga dia dapat balasan yg setimpal.