What's done is done; What is gone is gone. 

One of life's lessons is keep moving. It's OK to look back and think of fond memories, but always keep moving forward.

Reality of life...

if we sleep on flowers, its called our first night

if flowers sleep on us, its called our last night =))

It's not about keeping your relationship a secret.
It's about keeping it private.
People don't need to know everything.