Tuesday, April 24, 2012

In life there is no going back.
The road lies straight ahead.
You can’t return along the track to see out what has past.
You can’t undo your past mistakes;
even wishing to do so is in vain.

But in between all this; Don’t forget that you can always try again.
It's Madness...

To hate all roses, because you got scratched by one thorn.
To give up all your dreams, because one did not come true.
To lose faith in prayers, because one was not answered.

To give up on your efforts, because one of them failed.
To condemn all your friends, because one of them betrayed.
Not to believe in love, because someone was unfaithful.

Remember that, another chance may come up.
A new friend, A new love, A new life.

Never give up on anything !
It doesn’t matter what religion you are, what philosophy you follow. 
What matters is the intention you have in achieving a more harmonious world.
 If all the people that desire a change start creating a force among us, we can create a thought frequency of harmony, of peace, of freedom. It will all depend on unity.
We met → We talked → We liked → We called → We texted → We dated → We committed → I loved → You cheated → We're done → You're deleted.
Dear Papa ♥

No Matter Where I Go In Life,
Who I Get Married To,
How Much Time I Spend With Friendz,
How Much I Love My Love,
You Will Always Be My "Number One MAN" !!!




 

Sincerely,

Your Little Girl
Sometimes we wait for something that we're sure will never happen. 
But we just wait, wishing there would be a way to make it happen :')

Monday, April 23, 2012

I think everyone has a side where they are depressed and unhappy. 
Some people ignore it. 
Some people try to change it. 
Some people completely show it. 
And some people, they deal with it.
We have so many needs in our life, but at the end of the day, all we need is to be needed.
Getting my trust is easy. 
Getting it back when you've lost it.. Is impossible. 
So if you want to keep it, don't do something to lose it.
Sometimes you have to be strong for yourself. 
You have to know that you are a good person and a good friend. 
What is meant to be will end up good and what is not won’t. 
Relationships are worth fighting for, but sometimes you can’t be the only one fighting. At time, people need to fight for you. If they don’t, you must move on and realize what you gave them was more than they were willing to give you. 
Hopefully, people realize great things when they come around and don’t lose something real. Always fight, until you can’t anymore, and then be fought for.
Sometimes it is necessary to limit or eliminate your contact with certain individuals who bring you more misery than peace and do not reflect or allow you to be the person that you truly are or aspire to become. Instead, surround yourself with positive thinkers who are not always creating drama. 
Choose people who make your day brighter simply by being around them. 
Find those who you admire; you are proud to know; and who support, motivate and encourage you to grow.

Sunday, April 22, 2012

Pindapatta menyambut Waisak at Glodok











Mundur untuk Meloncat Lebih Tinggi


Suatu hari seorang murid dan guru berjalan menuruni gunung menuju ke kota, di dalam perjalanan mereka bertemu anak sungai yang aliran airnya tidak terlalu deras, saat itu sang guru melangkahi sungai tersebut dengan sangat mudah, walaupun sungai tersebut cukup lebar.

Sang murid yang melihat gurunya dengan sangat kagum, dan sang guru memintanya untuk mengikuti la...ngkahnya. Sang murid merasa ia tidak mampu melangkahi sungai tersebut hanya dengan satu langkah lebar, maka murid tersebut berjalan mundur dua langkah dan berlari kecil melompati sungai tersebut, hap, sungai itu berhasil dilalui.

Semakin jauh perjalanan mereka, rintangan yang dihadapi pun semakin berat, sang murid mengikuti gurunya di belakang dengan sangat hati-hati.

Tibalah mereka di sebuah jurang yang cukup terjal, namun tidak terlalu lebar. Di ujung jurang tersebut sang guru melangahkan kaki dengan yakin dan langkah pasti yang lebar, sang guru berhasil melangkahkan kakinya di sebrang jurang. Sang murid yang melihatnya sangat terkejut, sang guru pun berkata.

“Ayo melangkahlah menuju sisi jurang ini, lebar jurang ini sama seperti sungai yang kita lalui sebelumnya !”

Sang murid, yang melihat gurunya di sebrang jurang menunjukkan sebuah raut keraguan di wajahnya. Dengan seksama ia perhatikan lebar jurang tersebut, kedalamannya dan melihat ke belakang.

Dengan penuh kepastian ia mengambil lima langkah mundur dan bersiap menyebrangi jurang tersebut dengan berlari dan meloncat sepenuh tenaga, dan sekali lagi perhitungannya tepat. Sang murid berhasil menyebrangi jurang tersebut berkat kecerdikannya.

Sesampainya di sebrang jurang sang guru mengelus lembut kepala muridnya sambil berkata

“Wahai muridku, tahukah engaku apa yang membedakan loncatanmu saat di sungai dan di tepi jurang ? Walaupun dengan lebar yang sama, namun kau dapat melihat rintangan yang berbeda dari kedua hal tersebut, karena itu kau mengambil langkah mundur yang lebih banyak saat loncat di tepi jurang untuk memastikan keselamatanmu.

Begitu juga dengan kehidupan, saat tantangan hidup di depanmu lebih besar, kau harus melangkah mundur sedikit lebih banyak agar kita mampu mengatasi segala kemungkinan yang ada dan meloncat lebih tinggi.

Saat kau mengalami suatu kemunduran dalam hidupmu, entah itu kegagalan, jatuh, dikhianati, mungkin itulah langkah mundurmu agar dapat melompat lebih tinggi dan meraih setiap kesuksesanmu.”


Sumber: Dunia Training

Test 3 orang menantu


Seorang ibu mertua Punya 3 menantu dari ke-3 putrinya yang cantik-cantik, sang ibu mertua ingin tahu apakah ketiga menantunya itu sayang kepada mertuanya atau cuma putrinya doang. Dia lalu memutuskan menguji mereka secara bergantian.

Suatu hari dia mengajak menantu pertama naik perahu motor ke tengah laut. Di sana dia sengaja menjatuhkan dirinya dari perahu dan terlempar ke ...dalam air laut. Sang menantu tanpa pikir panjang langsung terjun menyelamatkan ibu mertuanya.

Besoknya ketika keluar rumah, sang menantu pertama melihat mobil Nissan Livina terparkir di depan rumah, dan secarik kertas tertempel bertulisan “Dari ibu mertuamu”.

Giliran menantu ke-2 yang diajak ke tengah laut. Sekali lagi sang mertua pura-pura terjatuh dan terlempar keluar perahu. Menantu kedua ini melupakan pakaian dan dompetnya, langsung terjun demi menyelamatkan mertua tercinta.

Besoknya di depan rumah menantu ke-2 terparkir Toyota Alphard, disertai kertas bertuliskan “Dari ibu mertuamu”

Ketika giliran menantu ke-3 diajak ke tengah laut, sang mertua kembali melakukan gerakan terjun bebas.

Tapi apes, kali ini sang menantu malah berkecak pinggang memandangi ibu mertuanya yang megap-megap di dalam air. Sempat-sempatnya dia berkata, “Rasain loe!”, sambil berputar membawa perahunya ke darat.

Besok harinya ketika menantu ini keluar rumah, di depan rumahnya terparkir Mercedes Benz E-Class beserta kertas bertulisakan, “Dari ayah mertuamu”
Everytime I Start Liking S0me0ne,
S0me0ne Else Always Steals Them Away..
Past can’t hurt you unless you let it.
Sometimes you need to step outside, clear your head and remind yourself of who you are. And where you wanna be. 
And sometimes you have to venture outside your world in order to find yourself. 
As for me, I'm happy right where I am. I only wanna be with you...
People are going to talk about you whether you're alive or dead, succeeding or failing, happy or sad and even if they're a family member or friend.
Talk is cheap; don't let talk bring your value down.

 
 
Strange but true.....

Generally... we believe our memory is weak...
but when we want to forget someone a lot, we begin to realize how powerful our memory is :)

-o0o-

 
Generally We Believe Our Memory Is Weak.
But When We Want To Forget Someone A Lot, We Begin To Realize How Powerful Our Memory Is.. !
Strange But True..


-o0o-

Memory is a way of holding on to the things you love, the things you are, the things you never want to lose.

Friday, April 20, 2012

Can I buy your time ?


A man came home from work late, tired and irritated, to find his 5-year old son waiting for him at the door.

SON: 'Daddy, may I ask you a question?'

DAD: 'Yeah sure, what it is?' replied the man.

SON: 'Daddy, how much do you make an hour?'

DAD: 'That's none of your business. Why do you ask such a thing?' the man said angrily.

SON: 'I just want to know. Please tell me, how much do you make an hour?'

DAD: 'If you must know, I make $50 an hour.'

SON: 'Oh,' the little boy replied, with his head down.

SON: 'Daddy, may I please borrow $25?'

The father was furious, 'If the only reason you asked that is so you can borrow some money to buy a silly toy or some other nonsense, then you march yourself straight to your room and go to bed. Think about why you are being so selfish. I don't work hard everyday for such childish frivolities.'

The little boy quietly went to his room and shut the door.

The man sat down and started to get even angrier about the little boy's questions. How dare he ask such questions only to get some money?

After about an hour or so, the man had calmed down , and started to think:

Maybe there was something he really needed to buy with that $25.00 and he really didn't ask for money very often The man went to the door of the little boy's room and opened the door.

'Are you asleep, son?' He asked.

'No daddy, I'm awake,' replied the boy.

'I've been thinking, maybe I was too hard on you earlier' said the man. 'It's been a long day and I took out my aggravation on you. Here's the $25 you asked for.'

The little boy sat straight up, smiling. 'Oh, thank you daddy!' he yelled. Then, reaching under his pillow he pulled out some crumpled up bills.

The man saw that the boy already had money, started to get angry again.

The little boy slowly counted out his money, and then looked up at his father.

'Why do you want more money if you already have some?' the father grumbled.

'Because I didn't have enough, but now I do,' the little boy replied.

'Daddy, I have $50 now. Can I buy an hour of your time? Please come home early tomorrow. I would like to have dinner with you.'

The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little son, and he begged for his forgiveness.