This blog is my library, mostly from other people's articles and only few are mine. I will re-read when I have time or whenever I want to
Tuesday, December 31, 2013
I want a guy who doesn't try so hard to be something he's not, respect his family but also me, true to himself and others, not afraid of showing emotion but stand his guard as well, someone who'll love me unconditionally, I'm tired of settling for ok or enough, I'm not asking for perfect but I am asking for something that's REAL, I don't think that's too much to ask for....
Monday, December 30, 2013
Sunday, December 29, 2013
Friday, December 27, 2013
Jalani hidup ini dengan
penuh harapan, walau
hidup tidak selalu bahagia. Berilah senyuman, walau
hati tak lagi mampu untuk bertahan.
Belajarlah memaafkan walau diri kita sudah
sangat terluka. Dalam hidup ini, kadang yang kita rencanakan
berjalan tidak seperti apa yang kita harapkan. Kehidupan mengajarkan
bagaimana kita membuat semua kejadian menjadi
kebaikan, bukan
kesedihan....
Saat tekanan datang
katakan dalam hati,
”setelah ini, aku bisa lebih baik lagi...”
Setiap masalah dalam
hidup ini se-mata-mata untuk membentuk kita
menjadi lebih tangguh dan bijaksana.
Berani mati tidaklah luar biasa, namun berani tetap hidup pada saat tidak
memiliki apa-apa lagi, itu barulah luar biasa.
Hidup ini indah, masih
banyak lagi hal biasa yang belum kita temukan. Jangan memandang rendah dan remeh orang
lain hanya karena ia tidak lebih pintar, tidak lebih kaya, tidak lebih beruntung dan tidak mempunyai kedudukan seperti kita. Hidup cuma sekedar ”Mampir minum”, seperti
pengembara di perjalanan panjang, ia akan berhenti sejenak untuk minum, lalu
melanjutkan kembali
perjalanannya. Hidup adalah sebuah proses waktu. Pemilik
kehidupan selalu silih
berganti. Gunakan waktu hidup kita
dengan se-baik baiknya, karena tidak ada yang menjamin bahwa setiap orang bisa hidup lebih lama
lagi di dunia. Jangan pernah menyerah
atas sebuah kegagalan! Kalau jatuh bangkit lagi, itulah arti kehidupan. Jatuh bangun itu biasa, apabila jatuh dan tidak bisa bangkit, itu baru binasa.
”Jauhilah yang jahat dan lakukanlah yang baik“
penuh harapan, walau
hidup tidak selalu bahagia. Berilah senyuman, walau
hati tak lagi mampu untuk bertahan.
Belajarlah memaafkan walau diri kita sudah
sangat terluka. Dalam hidup ini, kadang yang kita rencanakan
berjalan tidak seperti apa yang kita harapkan. Kehidupan mengajarkan
bagaimana kita membuat semua kejadian menjadi
kebaikan, bukan
kesedihan....
Saat tekanan datang
katakan dalam hati,
”setelah ini, aku bisa lebih baik lagi...”
Setiap masalah dalam
hidup ini se-mata-mata untuk membentuk kita
menjadi lebih tangguh dan bijaksana.
Berani mati tidaklah luar biasa, namun berani tetap hidup pada saat tidak
memiliki apa-apa lagi, itu barulah luar biasa.
Hidup ini indah, masih
banyak lagi hal biasa yang belum kita temukan. Jangan memandang rendah dan remeh orang
lain hanya karena ia tidak lebih pintar, tidak lebih kaya, tidak lebih beruntung dan tidak mempunyai kedudukan seperti kita. Hidup cuma sekedar ”Mampir minum”, seperti
pengembara di perjalanan panjang, ia akan berhenti sejenak untuk minum, lalu
melanjutkan kembali
perjalanannya. Hidup adalah sebuah proses waktu. Pemilik
kehidupan selalu silih
berganti. Gunakan waktu hidup kita
dengan se-baik baiknya, karena tidak ada yang menjamin bahwa setiap orang bisa hidup lebih lama
lagi di dunia. Jangan pernah menyerah
atas sebuah kegagalan! Kalau jatuh bangkit lagi, itulah arti kehidupan. Jatuh bangun itu biasa, apabila jatuh dan tidak bisa bangkit, itu baru binasa.
”Jauhilah yang jahat dan lakukanlah yang baik“
Sumber : https://www.facebook.com/toasebio
Thursday, December 26, 2013
I no longer believed in the idea of soul mates, or love at first sight. But I was beginning to believe that a very few times in your life, if you were lucky, you might meet someone who was exactly right for you. Not because he was perfect, or because you were, but because your combined flaws were arranged in a way that allowed two separate beings to hinge together.
~ Lisa Kleypas, Blue-Eyed Devil ~
Try to forgive by trying to understand how it would feel to be in the other’s shoes. If someone hurts you – ask them - “What hurts you so much that you would do this?” Listen to the answer and try to understand what is valid for them. They may have been fighting for your attention, but no one thinks of themselves as attackers, only defenders! So don’t judge their ways, only set them free by giving them a chance to speak. You may both learn a lot from your kindness and courage in asking for the truth. But even if nothing changes, release it, remember that you both have a right to be who you choose to be. When we make judgements we're inevitably acting on limited knowledge, so ask if you seek to understand, or simply let them be!
~ Jay Woodman ~
I can tell you a lot about her.
She’s someone with a huge heart.
She will bend over backwards and fold herself in half helping out someone if she can do anything.
Her loyalty to the ones that mean something to her is unheard of nowadays.
She smiles like she’s never been hurt, and if you didn’t know her, you wouldn’t ever imagine her to ever be hurt. But it happens, a lot more than anyone realizes....
She’s really fragile, and it takes very little for her to be hurt, as she takes everything to heart.
I’m not surprised though if you don’t know a lot though,
because she’s really cautious and her letting someone close to her is a rare thing to happen.
There are demons inside her that she’s constantly in a fight with.
And she’s a lot worse to herself than anything that could be said to her.
She wouldn’t expect anyone to notice her or to listen to the things she has to say that aren’t necessary to be said.
But I’m telling you, she’s so worth it all, she’s nothing you’d ever expect, and you’ll feel alive in a way that you’ve never have with her in your life.
She’s someone with a huge heart.
She will bend over backwards and fold herself in half helping out someone if she can do anything.
Her loyalty to the ones that mean something to her is unheard of nowadays.
She smiles like she’s never been hurt, and if you didn’t know her, you wouldn’t ever imagine her to ever be hurt. But it happens, a lot more than anyone realizes....
She’s really fragile, and it takes very little for her to be hurt, as she takes everything to heart.
I’m not surprised though if you don’t know a lot though,
because she’s really cautious and her letting someone close to her is a rare thing to happen.
There are demons inside her that she’s constantly in a fight with.
And she’s a lot worse to herself than anything that could be said to her.
She wouldn’t expect anyone to notice her or to listen to the things she has to say that aren’t necessary to be said.
But I’m telling you, she’s so worth it all, she’s nothing you’d ever expect, and you’ll feel alive in a way that you’ve never have with her in your life.
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